where is my other half?

happyheart

I am not gifted to be single. HE said it is not good for a man to be along. then, where is my other half? I have read all the books about christian dating. but I am weak, I can not do all the things required in those books. So is HE punishing me? is He trying to make me a better person? If he is, then he faild. I am not happy, no hope, depressed, lonely. And even if I did follow all the suggestions in the book, I will still be single and waiting. but maybe with more peace and joy. BUT STILL SNGLE. So, what is HE doing? What is his plan? Can anyone tell me?!

爱智慧

不懂事的baby

你的英文不错,可并不是每个人都和你一样啊,在这里还是用中文好点,除非你是外国朋友

mianmian

以下是引用不懂事的baby在2005-3-4 22:07:00的发言： 你的英文不错,可并不是每个人都和你一样啊,在这里还是用中文好点,除非你是外国朋友

branch

姐妹，要学会忍耐和等待哦。

[B]他[/B]是信实的。在[B]他[/B]面前安稳，这话也是我说给自己的。

lingkin_lui

Dear Happyheart, I know that you are still lonely in this moment, don't worry. I am too!! I waiting 39yrs. Ah~~Ah!! Don't give up, look up to Him. He remember you,love you and lookafter, He will gives specail one for you when you met "half" your will amazed and praise to Him. He is great faithfulness,compassios. When we saw summer and winter, springtime and harvest there are witness for Him's mercy and love. Your said He punishing you. There is no ture. He is give blessing. He promised his daughter get happiness family. In "The Song of Songs"(2:7), "I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, by the rose, and by ther hinds of the field, that you stir not up, nor awake my love, till he please." Don't be afraid. You weak but He said, I am strong, When He out the bad He must give you best. He will lead the way for you. You remember sand of footprint, He will carry you on back. Prayer together

主掌心中的宝贝

耶和华以勒！

（中文你还得懂吧）

溢出的恩泉

学会等待,要坚信,神总不会误事...

hellohill_80

6楼的老大，你waiting得也太久了吧~~ 至于楼主，我想your man mabey和你一样正在为他的另一半勤加祷告吧~~ 也许呢，刚信主，在怀疑和彷徨中徘徊，更或许呢，还在堕落中翱翔~~ 不过这些都不重要，你也没有办法控制，不是么~~ 既然he will prepare the best one for you~~ 你只凭着信耐心等待即可，6楼应该就是你的榜样啦：） 你现在single就做single时候该做的事， 不然啊the half for you出现后 你想回头做过single的日子也不行啦， 那时候还会有much more烦恼等着你那~~ ----------------------------------- 单身多好，单身万岁~~

daniel991207

First I want to remind you: Marriage is not absolute for every christian. We absolutely need to keep holy. Our purpose of life is glorify His name and live for him. We are really weak. But think of suffering of Christ, then we will know how He loves you. We will get strength and patience to live the holy life. Holiness means to have a pure heart to Him. I am thiry years year old now. When I think of His suffering, I know my suffering is so tiny. Share two verses to you and me: I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us. --Rom 8:18 The disciple is not above his master, nor the servant above his lord. -Matt 10:24 Lastly I want to tell: You are not alone. Many sisters also suffer as same as you. Pray to him: Lord, what do you want me to do? What lessons do you want to learn when I am single? When the fulness of the time is come, you will find out your other half. May His peace be with you. May He lead you to higher ground. :)