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一篇有趣的文章: 讨论男孩女孩有无分校上学的必要

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发表于 2004-2-27 18:49 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
Boys and girls should not attend separate schools. We are humans living among humans. Humans comprise of men and women. In fact, a person does not exit except being a man or a woman. [B]It is written: “Male and female he created them.”[/B] Therefore, it is no wonder to say that the relationship between men and women is the most natural one in the world. As we know, a person’s childhood years, from birth until twelve years of age, are the most important. All the information I have read about that time of life states that these are the years that form us. These years determine what kind of a person the child will become. During these years we learn about relationships, begin our formal education and develop our moral sense of right and wrong. By isolating boys and girls in separate schools, we derive them of normal childhood. Thus, a series of negative effects will accompany them through out their lives. They will not enjoy the kaleidoscope of friendship as others will, because their opportunities of establishing friendship with the opposite genders has been greatly diminished. Even worse, they might have been indoctrinated with false belief on boys or girls. The stereotypes and myths they have learned in their early days will make them unlikely to have smooth communication with people. Consequently, their satisfactory level in future career will be lowered, since today’s business has enter the partnering era which put more emphasis on quality relationship—the key to survival rather than an option in last century. When these boys and girls grow up, they will enter marriage.[B] It is written: “It is not good for the man to be alone.”[/B] How they choose their life partner greatly relies on their childhood experience. They often conceive improper concept on the true meaning of love and marriage. Various researches have shown that they often suffer from unhappy marriage and their divorce rate is twice higher than the average. [B]It is also written: “Be fruitful and increase in number.”[/B] Naturally, these couples will have children. Apparently, children of unhappily married or divorced parents often become victims of many psychological unhealthiness, loneliness and depression for instance. If the percentage of this kind of families in our society is significantly high, we humans, as a unity, will definitely be troubled by lots of social problems. Therefore, I cannot agree with the statement that boys and girls should attend separate schools.
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