The problem is that the more sympathy we show to non-believers, the more they become defensive, since they don't understand the meaning of great salvation. Sure they will not understand why we have to praise to our Lord even in tribulations or adversaries such as this case. They might challenge us in their own mindset that we just don't care, but no matter how much care we demonstrated, they gonna stick to their own thinking. Why? They are non-believers. They can only use their logics and emotions to reason an answer, when they don't get it, they just blame the God. Because they are already in the dark valley of shadows, no one can rescue them not even their close relatives, only God can help them. But how can you tell non-believers that their girl is now in the good hands of Jesus Christ, standing on the right side of our Father? Even so, will they appreciate that or simply call you a cold-blooded geek? We can only pray for His grace and mercy, for His amazing love and His great salvation.